Not every day feels like a gift.  There are days where the to-do list runneth over, the kids are particularly wild, your significant other is getting on your last raw nerve, or you don’t have a significant other (although you have been praying for one FOREVER).  Or maybe your “doesn’t feel like a gift” focuses more on physical problems.  I have severe chemo induced peripheral neuropathy in my legs and feet, which causes daily, chronic pain even six plus years after treatment.  My pelvic bone (which was resected and now has very sharp edges) and surrounding tissues ache or hurt often.  My energy levels have never returned.  These issues seem to chant in my ears, “you call this is a gift?”

YES!  I am still alive!  Others are not that fortunate.  That was brought home so clearly last month when I learned a dear high school friend woke up one Sunday morning and thought it was a day like any other.  It was not.  He had a stroke and never got to kiss his sweet wife good night, as she went to bed that night in a bed that would never be the same.  Another high school friend, who has always lived a healthy and active life, suffered a heart attack last week while working out at the gym. Thankfully he survived, but not before having a stent placed in a totally clogged artery.  You see, every day that you wake up is a gift.

There is always something to be grateful for, even in the worst of days.  Sometimes you just have to look a little harder.  Do you have a friend you can call when you just need to talk?  Is the sun shining?  Is there a roof over your head?  Is your water safe to drink?  Is your heart still beating?  We all have so many things to be grateful for.  So, if today doesn’t feel like the gift you wish you were opening, look for three things you can be grateful for.  Just three.  It doesn’t matter how big or how small.  Come up with three.  And then really feel the gratitude.  Feel it in your heart and in your soul and say thank you.  Every day is truly a gift, even if it is wrapped a little differently than you might wish.  There are so many others who no longer have the chance to unwrap a new tomorrow.  As long as you are still breathing, there are reasons for gratitude and hope (and you all know how much I like hope).